Ok I'm the grandpa of these guys and they want to beat on my kit. Thats ok to a point but do they want to learn drums and play? What is a good way to get them started? Find a DVD for kids? If so which? Some simple exercises? I'm thinking practice pad to start and see if there is some affinity for this before I give them a kit. Maybe milestones to get for snare, hat etc. I have flexibility here and will support some learning and work ethic. I just dont want to give them a set and turn them lose to teach themselves. I also see this as a potential bonding opportunity. Thanks for suggestions and ideas as always.