I blocked the Sweetwater guy. Really annoying. Once, I got a call about 10 minutes after being on the site - kinda creeped me out.
PS: I called on an item once and left my call back number with the salesman. I never entered it on the website that I remember. I am going over now to check.
Sounds like you would be better served by speaking to your wife, and not us. In fact... counseling might be in your future. With you and her being this far apart on a major life decision - nothing good will come without some serious work on your relationship.
She has renewed my faith that Jazz is alive. When Wayne Shorter himself shares "new music" on facebook, and it's usually Nicole - that made me know something was up with her. Bravo!!
This a pure trio setting. She shines.
Think about it this way - even Neil Peart (insert favorite drummer name) would be annoying to any neighbor who didn't want to hear drums fromthe neighbor's house. Do your best to control the volume.