I’m on board with canceling and getting out and actually HEARING a kit before you buy it. Now that stores are opening back up and private parties are more open to meeting face to face, you can hear, see and touch what you’re buying. You might get lucky and find a used kit at a store and you can still use your credit card. As many others have said, you can get A LOT of great drums and other gear for $4K. I’ve had dozens of kits and played 1000’s of shows and one of the best sounding (and well received) kits I played was a no-name red glass glitter kit I grabbed for $60 off of Craig’s List. Go with what makes your ears and gut happy.