When I was dating my wife and she came to my house I had a 7 piece Ludwig kit in the office. So I'm not sure why she would be surprised that this is happening, lol. But it's really hard to play when people are home its so loud and really not pleasant to listen too. I'm not really interested in bands very much anymore. Like having 4 girlfriends and you can never make them all happy. I do like the idea of session work and I like doing drum covers. The video stuff is really flaking me out, because not only do I have to play the music, mix it and record it now I have to be a lighting guy and videographer. I don't know how these 16 year olds are doing it. I would just love a place where I could set up, light my kit up, get all the cameras in place and leave it! So I can just go in do some work and leave. I guess i'm dreaming lol.