Same idea is why I made sure my younger cousin’s first real concert was Motley Crue. There are better musicians in the world but few better spectaclesWhatever one thinks of Kiss, that seems like the ideal first rock show. It's why I took my kids to see the Flaming Lips when each of them was old "enough". Spectacle, celebration, joy, fantasy (with the added benefit of the DIY aspect of a Flaming Lips show). Explosions and swear words!