You are so lucky. I've never had a bandleader since high school tell me what he wanted from me. I've found most don't know what to say or ask.Our leader is a retired school music teacher with a Masters and is fussy about cymbal sounds especially as regards our Be Bop numbers as he likes that long wash that was common on those 50s recording. He asked if I had an old K or a Swisher. I simply hung hardware store drain stopper chains from each cymbal and he’s very happy.
go figure !
Example: One night the leader had a band banner and couldn't find a place to hang it. He hung it over my bass drum. It sound terrible; during the first break I asked him how my bass drum sounded. He replied: It sounded good to me. I replied: I didn't play it. As I walked away the steel player explained why. When I came back the banner was gone. He apologized. I didn't get mad, I understood that some people just don't understand. All he knows is how to sing a song. And for that reason he's not a exceptional singer but he is on key.
sherm